How To Be Confident FAST!

Dear friends,

Need a quick shot of confidence? Maybe you’re in a new or difficult situation, like asking the boss for a raise or a party where you don’t know anyone. In any case, people often lack confidence in situations where having it could be the difference between success and failure.

One technique for building confidence in these kind of situations is called acting ‘As If’. More than just pretending or faking confidence in a scary situation, acting ‘As If’ is a complete process and can be used to build confidence in areas of your life where it is lacking. Here’s how it works:

First, recognize that there are areas of your life where you do, in fact, have a lot of confidence, remember a specific time in your past where you were doing or saying something with confidence. It doesn’t have to be a particularly serious or challenging moment, just pick the first thing that comes to mind.

Next, let your body go back to that moment where you had lots of confidence. Give your whole self fully to that moment, remembering what your body felt like. Pay attention to three specific things when you do this:

• Your Posture : How do you hold your body when you’re feeling confident? Fully feel your posture while you’re remembering, and move around in your confident body.

• Your Gestures : What sort of gestures do you let your body make when you’re very confident? Do you move your hands forcefully, or gently? Do you even make gestures at all? Remember that time and let your body gesture (or not) at it normally would in that moment.

• Your Voice : What does your voice sound like when you’re supremely confident? Focus not so much on what you said in that moment, but what your voice sounds like. Remember the tone of voice (volume, pitch, and speed) and speak with that same confident tone here and now.

So, now that you’re fully living and breathing that moment of confidence, and focused on your posture, gestures and tone of voice, slowly allow yourself to visualize the new situation. Relax and take a deep breath. Do this slowly, so that you can bring your confident self into the new environment. Notice what your voice sounds like as you ask your boss for that raise, notice your posture and gestures (or lack of) as you speak to those new people at the party.

Keep focusing on the 3 key areas as you visualize, and if you feel your confidence starting to fade too much, allow yourself to go back to the old situation again to refocus.

Do this slowly at first, back and forth in your mind’s eye between the confident situation, and bringing that confident you into what is now becoming a less and less challenging environment. After a bit of practice, you’ll be able to feel completely confident in your visualization of the upcoming event. Continue this exercise every night before you go to sleep for at least 3 weeks, and you’ll find confidence creeping into your life in situations you never expected.

Yours Truly,

Tony Chai

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Don't Ever Short Change Your Life By This!

Dear friends,

If you truly wish to be successful in life and in your business then it is important to have a sense of your own value. We tend to dismiss or take for granted the many successful achievements throughout our lives. Graduating from high school, buying a house or raising a child all require a degree of skills and discipline, yet we never really think about those sorts of achievements and how they might have made us a better person or someone who others look up to.

Recognition of these sorts of achievements is important to help build our self confidence. A lack of self confidence or self worth is one of the major dream killers. You may have wanted to be a pilot but decided against taking lessons because you thought that it might get a bit scary up there. Perhaps you wanted to be a doctor or a lawyer but you didn't end up going to college because your family members told you "no-one in our family has ever been a doctor or a lawyer". Some people might take a statement like that as a challenge, but many would also see it as an indication that their family and friends don't believe in them... and would give up on that dream.

You need to put other peoples opinions and influences aside and think about what you have already achieved in your life and what you would like to achieve in the future. Consider that there have probably been many people who had exactly the same hopes or goals as you have, and many of them achieved those goals. If those people didn't honestly believe that they could achieve everything that they set out to accomplish then they most likely would have failed. Common sense tells us that if you don't believe you can leap over a fence then there's a very good chance that you are going to hit that fence fairly hard and end up in a crumpled heap.

Professional sports people are an excellent example of what can be achieved with self belief and hard work. You don't get to the top of your sport by constantly telling yourself "I'll never be the best". When Muhammad Ali loudly proclaimed "I am the greatest" he wasn't just giving lip service to self confidence - he genuinely believed he was the greatest boxer on the planet. Most athletes who compete at the Olympic Games are there because at some point they realized that they had become good enough at their sport to compete amongst the best athletes in the world. They realized their potential and set about a plan of action to take them to that pinnacle.

Your capability to achieve whatever you desire lies within. Most of the barriers that are placed in the way of a good goal or dream are usually put there by our own minds or by people who have no real interest in whether you succeed or not. Some of them may even be envious of your enthusiasm and positive outlook. As the great business philosopher and personal development speaker Jim Rohn once said - "The few who DO are the envy of the many who watch".

I Put It To The Test... It's Really Pretty Easy!

To Your Success,

Tony Chai

Still No Success In Attracting Your Abundance Yet?

Dear friends,

You have probably arrived here because you've seen Steve's review of my e-book “The No-Fluff Cheat Sheet To Getting Anything You Want From The Cosmic Universe!” (Thanks! Steve.)



I have learned a lot about the power of our subconscious mind and the law of attraction from books like :
1) "The Power of the Subconscious Mind" - Dr Joseph Murphy
2) "The Science of Getting Rich" - Wallace D. Wattles
3) "The Magic of Believing" - Claude M. Bristol
4) "The Attractor Factor" - Dr Joe Vitale and the popular
5) "Think and Grow Rich" - Napoleon Hill.

I also liked Dr Robert Anthony's "The Secret of Deliberate Creation" CD program and have watched "The Secret" DVD created by Rhonda Byrne.

But frankly, I sometimes find the information that I'm exposed to too overwhelming. Try Googling "law of attraction". You'll see a mammoth of information about this "mysterious energy" which can convert our thoughts into realities.

That really prompted me to release my very own simple 6 steps process, a guide which condenses what I've learned so far and also what I've experienced personally to tap on our inner power and the law of attraction to create our goals and desires.

The guide is concise. The exact 6 steps process is revealed in less than 30 pages. It's not filled with "fluff" to bog you down from getting started immediately.

That means you can start applying these steps right after you've finished the guide to begin attracting abundance in your finance, health, relationship etc. into your life immediately.

The guide is available in PDF and mp3 audio book format. You will also receive the following Free Bonuses!

Bonus #1: The Lost Chapters : This is the guide which Steve has mentioned in the video. It reveals more secrets about the law of attraction to boost your goal manifestation process - in the quickest and easiest way! Available in mp3 audio format too.

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I have attracted finances into my life by personally applying the 6-steps process as laid out in my guide.

Now, It Is YOUR Turn To Apply These Exact Techniques To Attract Your Very Own Abundance and Happiness!

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To Your Success,

Tony Chai

Attracting Abundance - We Are All Connected

Dear friends,

Attracting Abundance with the help of the Cosmic Universe is your rights!

The other day, I received a strong signal to listen to this song.
I went to YouTube and Yes! I found it!
This was a movie that I've watched, if I'm not wrong, back in the 80s.
The movie's called "Electric Dreams".
I listened to the lyrics of the theme song carefully...
"Wow!" There's exactly the message (in the song) that I have hoped to convey to everyone!!
Here's the wonderful music video :



My friends, we are all connected. The Cosmic Universe connects us together so that we can serve our Higher Purpose. She helps us in attracting abundance in all areas of our lives.

But how do we connect as one? How does the Cosmic Universe knows our intention and helps us achieve attracting abundance? And How do we convey our intention, goals or desires to the Cosmic Universe?

The answers are all in my e-book and audio program called "The No-Fluff Cheat Sheet To Getting Anything You Want From The Cosmic Universe!".

I hope once you know this secret, act on it! Moreover, help others attract their abundance and achieve their goals too!

Warmest Regards & A Very Merry Christmas!

Tony Chai

Thank You Blog - 21/10/10

The Higher Power,

Good morning. Thank you for your blessings. I wake up feeling grateful. Today is a wonderful day. I embrace today with a healthy body. I'm breathing gently, I can see, hear, smell, taste, touch effortlessly. I am blessed with these abilities and not taking them for granted. For that, I thank God and Lord for your generosity in gifting them to me. I chant the Goddess of Wealth, Maha Lakshmi mantra as I wake up gently :

Om Shreem Hreem Kleem Shreem
Lakshmi Racha Gachha
Mama Mandire Tishtha-Tishtha Swaha

I will try to chant the mantra 108 times today for 11 days to reach siddha.

This mantra is never failing for one who seeks success in business and financial prosperity, or who faces barriers in business growth, or other obstacles to prosperity. This mantra is very dear to Goddess Lakshmi, who told Vasistha that, "I am very pleased by this mantra and if any person recites this mantra even once, I will establish myself in his home."

Thank You Lord for your blessings.

Tony Chai

The Nirvana of Living in The NOW

Dear friends,

Are you sometimes haunted by your past and or suddenly becomes nervous just by thinking of the past? I admit that I do experience these feelings at times myself. But we don't have to, my friends. I have to come to understand that the past is already the past. Whatever that has happened is already over. Fretting over the past is not going to make us feel any better now. Besides, the past is never a reflection of what is going to happen to us in the future. So, we do not actually have to be a victim of the past. In fact, the past can serve as a useful lesson for us to learn to be wiser. And if we treat the past as a piece of useful information to guide us in our future endeavours, there is no reason for us to be afraid of it, right?

Similarly, we should not be worrying about the future. The future is not even here yet. Things have not even happened! So, there is no reason wasting your precious time and energy worrying about it.

But there is one way to shape your future, and that is to ...

focus on the NOW. Yes, "Now" is the moment that is always the most precious to us because IT is the only moment that we are living in it. Now is the only moment that we can do whatever that we desire to accomplish. We can't do something "in the past". Certainly we cannot perform something "into the future". We can only live in the present moment, and we should always be grateful that "NOW" is the only moment that we can direct our thoughts to our sub-conscious mind to accomplish anything that we truly desire.

If you've watched "The Secret", you'll remember that the way to manifest what you truly desire is to visualize that you are NOW living in your desired state right at this very moment!. When you could emotionally engaged yourself to feel that you've already achieved your true heart desire right in this very moment, you have actually "tricked" the sub-conscious mind into believing that you are already the person whom you desire to be. When this desire is conveyed to the Super-Conscious Mind by your sub-conscious mind, she will bring about the circumstances & resources to turn your desire into a reality.

One thing that you should constantly do right NOW is to be grateful of what you have already possessed. Be grateful that you are viewing this sentence at this very moment as a friendly reminder that you can deliberately create what you truly desire. Believe me that YOU have the power to consciously program your sub-conscious mind to create whatever you desire. This truth, though simple, is very powerful. It is a knowledge that is precious, since not many people are aware of it! Be constantly grateful, as this is a wonderful "flip switch" which will drive away your fear, worries and doubt instantly. Besides, being grateful creates the positive feelings whose energy level is more powerful than our negative thoughts. What's important is that this positive energy level is vibrating at the same frequency level as the Universe who is turning your desire into a reality.

In the timeless classic "The Science of Getting Rich" written by Mr Wallace D. Wattles, it is revealed that the more grateful you are, the faster you'll be able to manifest what you desire! And when combined with doing things in a certain way mentioned above, creating what you truly desire is only a matter of time. When you are focused on visualizing your true-heart desires, you are actually activating the "Law of Attraction". This law, just like any other laws like "The Law of Gravity", will never fail and will always work for everyone! But "Now" is the moment you have, so it's always the best time for you to attract your desire right now!

Mr Og Mandino, best-selling author of a number of inspirational books like "The Greatest Salesman in the World", "The Greatest Miracle in the World", "A Better Way to Live" etc., also emphasized the importance of "Living in the Now" to his millions of readers.

So remember, your NOW is the golden opportunity that you should grab hold of in order to shape your desired future. Treasure the present moment and be grateful that you can deliberately and consciously create whatever that you desire - right at this very moment!

Yours Truly,

Tony Chai

Review of "Wishing Well - A Guide To Creating Your Dreams Through Cosmic Ordering"

Dear friends,

Don't you wish you could be transported back to that fateful evening in the Arabian Nights, where you've just picked up the magic lamp, rubs it a couple of times, and "Poof!" - a Genie appears right before your eyes and grants you 3 wishes for freeing him from his entrapment? Isn't it wonderful if this Genie is for real? In our modern lives, everyone of us seems to be struggling over something, be it our job, relationship, finances or even our health. How we hope we could be granted just ONE wish to get us out of this rut, to be who we want to be, and to achieve what we truly desire to make our lives more meaningful.

The good news is, my friends, may be the Genie DOES exist in our modern lives. But instead of gifting us our wishes by his doings, he has handed us the Secret of how we can consciously create our wishes, in the form of a fine, neat little guide book called the "Wishing Well - A Guide To Creating Your Dreams Through Cosmic Ordering" written by Mr Steven Hall.

If you've read my earlier posts, you'll realized I've mentioned how powerful our Sub-Conscious Mind is to create the goal(s) that we truly desire. The wonderful thing is, our Sub-Conscious Mind has this intimate connection with the Super-Conscious, also known as the Universe or the Infinite Intelligence, who gathers all the resources, people & events to bring about the manifestation of our deepest desires. Mr Steven Hall refers to the process of planting our intention into our Sub-Conscious Mind as a "Cosmic Ordering" process, where if we applied the relevant steps properly, we will receive the desired outcome or our goal that we have conveyed to the Universe through our Sub-Conscious Mind.

You've probably read the book or have seen the DVD "The Secret". You've also practised the "Law of Attraction" regularly. But somehow you still feel short of achieving your goal. What could be wrong? What I think is that you might not have the step by step techniques to guide you on how you could manifest your desire or goal effectively.

Well, this book could be your answer.

As a Professional Psychologist and NLP Practitioner, Steven has helped his clients discover the abilities within themselves to claim back their desired life or achieve their goals with simple & practical hypnosis and NLP techniques. Even Steve himself has manifested his very own "dream house" with the steps which he knew very well that can turn his desire into a reality. The steps that he has laid out in his book are clear, practical and in line with what you have read from "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill, "The Science of Getting Rich" by Wallace D. Wattles, "The Power of the Subconscious Mind" written by Dr Joseph Murphy, "The Magic of Believing" by Claude M. Bristol or "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne. Instead of referring to all these books to guide you in your cosmic ordering process, you can now have Steven's book right beside you when you need a good friend & companion to get you back on track in your manifestation process.

A slight warning here.

The steps that Steven have laid out in his book are SIMPLE and practical, so simple that you may wonder "Is that all to it?". But from my practical experiences with the cosmic ordering process, the steps that he has mentioned DO WORK! Though they may seem simple (or even stupid :) if you are new to all these and may even scoff them off initially, I just want to share with you that these are actually very powerful steps! To be frank, I've already understood and have been practising these steps BEFORE I even bought this book! But The Divine Guidance always has a mischievous way in guiding me. She wittingly lets me know what I've discovered all along to be correct by presenting me with Steven's book; sort of like seeking a second opinion from a Doctor :).

To make my very own cosmic ordering story short, I'm glad to share that I've managed to manifest the funds that I require for a project through the steps mentioned in Steven's book; and it is coming to me soon. The amazing thing, it is arriving from a totally unexpected source! Here, we come to one of the most important step in your cosmic ordering process. When you've put up your desire or goal to the Universe, you MUST have utmost confidence that it is already a reality. You then have to LET GO. Yes, LET GO. Leave it to the Universe to bring it to you. Don't crack your brains thinking HOW it's coming to you. Don't force things to happen thinking it might speed up the process, though you are actually delaying it! Just remember that when the time is right for you to receive your desired outcome, The Universe will give you the hint. This is sometimes being referred as your Intuition. When you have that intuitive urge to act on something which you feel is in line with your goal or desire, you then act upon it without hesitation! Yes, your intuitive act is just that final step to take to harvest what you have initially wished for from the Universe!

My advice is, claim this wonderful book while it's still available at an affordable price. Then practice the simple techniques that Steven have laid out in the book consistently to achieve and receive your True Heart Desire.

Yours truly,

Tony Chai